The Living Deeply Rooted
Marriage Ministry
The Most important issue in a marriage is one’s personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ and the lens in which they see life, themselves, and their spouses. Only Jesus Can meet our deepest needs, but many times over we need to be willing to seek out what those needs are, why and where it began to get messy. In healing there is a renewing of the mind and healing of the heart and a new fire for each other!
Meet the Team
We are Dave and Lindsey Bundy, faith-based, marriage and trauma coaches on a mission to help couples navigate life’s beauty and storms to be victorious in their lives, marriage, and Legacy.
We coach from the foundation and heart of God’s Word. He is the Author and Perfecter of your Faith. Apart from Him we can do nothing that will produce roots and fruit. Our mission is to walk alongside each of you, providing soul healing and restoring the deep love and very essence in which the Lord has intended to bless your lives with.
This is a second marriage for us both, so statistically our marriage was doomed to fail. However, we’ve been married for 21 years and dated 2 years prior to being married. We are a blended family of 3 wonderful young adult children and a beautiful grandson. We look forward to sharing our story to encourage you to believe and declare Victory!
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The Back Story
(from Dave)
During our dating years, we were not following God’s word and not honoring Him. Lindsey was drawing closer to God and wanting to honor Him, but I was reluctant and resistant to His word. I was satisfied with our relationship of ungodly living; however, Lindsey was growing more unsatisfied with our relationship as we were not in sync with our spiritual path. Lindsey would attend church as I would say “I’ll go “, but had no intensions of going in. This went on for about a year, then finally, one Sunday I decided to join Lindsey at church, and I became emotional during worship and the message. I couldn’t understand why. That’s when the Holy Spirit got a hold of me and never let go. Since then, our relationship grew stronger and after 2 years of dating, we were married. Life wasn’t perfect once we were a Christian married couple, but we declared the Lord is the essential foundation upon which a strong marriage is to be built on rock not sand.
Looking back the mercy and goodness of Jesus was heavy as we both navigated being married, parenting, our careers, and own Journey with the Lord. Many times, over we would dig our heals in and many times over we would fall short. Many times, our marriage reflects our own personal relationship with Jesus. But no shame or condemnation just invitation to come into His presence and heal. We both had unresolved trauma from childhood and young adulthood which unbeknownst carried deep wounds which resulted in poor communication, our sex life and much more. The baggage needed to be looked at, our stories rewritten from a place of redemption & forgiveness ad. We were thirst for God and the bubbling up of the brokenness came to head. It was there we needed to take our pain to Jesus and look at each other through the lens in which He sees us. It was time to address unresolved things that were very dusty and pushed under the rug. Causing many times over to not operate in a place of being “as one” as God intended us.
Through extensive prayer, God Word, Jesus Community, and formal training, we are here to walk with you cry, pray, listen, fight for you and celebrate with you!
We are marriage on the Rock Certified, Mental Health Trauma Coaches and Journey 2 Wholeness Alumni and Coaches.
That is just a snapshot of our beginnings and would love to share more.
Blessings,
Dave and Lindsey
The average couple waits 6 YEARS from the onset of their marriage problems before getting help.
DON’T LET
THAT BE YOU!
THE FOUR PILLARS
Establish Rooted Foundational Pillars of Marriage.
Most often it is when we begin to see the leaking of unhealed wounds from our past, even as far back as early childhood. This comes up in the way we love, respond, think, engage, process, and connect.
Our Mission is to come along side our couples with compassion of Jesus to those who are struggling both within the covenant of their marriage, personal relationships with God and the dry broken places within our souls.
The Pillar of Priority
Your #1 priority is your personal daily relationship with God. 'Seek 1st the Kingdom." God Designed marriage to operate as your #1b. It starts with the heart. And your actions and thoughts will reflect the contents of your heart. A priority is something we treat or rank as more important. Putting your spouse first above children, work, hobbies, birth family, or other responsibilities means prioritizing your spouse. How you are respond or not respond is often a reflection of an inner conflict.
The Pillar of Partnership
God Designed Marriage to be ONE. Emotionally, mentally, spiritually, physically and financially.
The Pillar of Pursuit
Marriage is work. We are Gods craftsmanship, His masterpiece. Surrendering to Gods work in us produces beautiful Kingdom fruit, favor and abundance. As in Marriage, it is work. God being the center, when you work it works, when you dont, it wont.
The Pillar of Purity
God Designed marriage to function in an atmosphere of total nakedness.
Physically
Emotionally
Mentally
Spiritually
For nakedness to exist, there must be an atmosphere of purity. Exposing the places in which we cover up, feels vulnerability. If we look at this from the lens of "courageously" surrendering" how might we respond to purity in heart, mind and marriage.
Marriage Coaching Packages
Take a deep dive into Journey to Wholeness to rewire the brain with the TRUTH in Gods Word and biblical-based neuroscience principles. Learn more about J2W here.
Personalized Coaching 4-month Journey
Includes:
- Couples Coaching 2x month
- Personal 1:1 coaching (Dave with Husbands, Lindsey with wives), 1x a month (1 hour each)
- Rewire past to gain clarity and healing in the present and future.
- Expose the lies, wrongful narratives and IGNITE the Passion, friendship and purpose for your marriage.
- Create Marriage Focused Legacy Commitment.
- Pillars and Foundation in which your Marriage will adhere to.
- Personalized Identity mission statement.
- Creative and exciting ways to rekindle your love.
- Spiritual formation discipleship
- “MIND, BODY, SOUL & SPIRIT”
Couples will be asked to partake in creative assignments together and separate. With the focus to rekindle Love and healing in each other and with God.
price is per couple
Journey 2 Wholeness
Group Coaching
You will be a part of an intimate group of 5 married couples.
- Tuesday Evenings
- Time 7-8pm
- 12-weeks, beginning 9/ 19/23
Includes:
- Personalized Commitment to each other and God to build a legacy marriage.
- We will walk through the J2W curriculum (PDF copy will be sent to each of you)
- Weekly investment of time with God and the homework within the 12 weeks
- Weekly Devotional sent.
- Spiritual Formation Discipleship
- End of the 12 weeks each couple will have personal Coaching session with Dave and Lindsey.
- Celebration Retreat in mid-January at The Scott Hotel & Resort, Scottsdale AZ (Guest Speakers, exciting details to be announced cost)
price is per couple
Additional Notes:
**Dave & I understand you may have the need to have personalized 1:1 coaching session (45 min) within the 12-week, this is very normal and welcomed! Heavy lifting can be done together and often as
Jesus taught us in His word, this life is not meant to be lived alone. We are here for you!
Coaching 1:1 offered at reduced rate of $50 per session. These can be scheduled to
accommodate your time.
**Men if you would like a personal conversation with Dave, please email him directly at:
Dave@dbihomeinspection.com
**Women see LDR offering for personal coaching journeys, retreats, events and more!
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Coming January 2024
If not now...When?
We will be offering Marriage on the Rock Equipping
- We will be taking 10 couples.
- $500 per couple
- Personalized couple coaching each week
- And Love Dare assignments
Stay tuned for more!
Let me know if you want to connect, I can chat!